How to get noticed - All Dressed Up and Nowhere to Go
Getting noticed can be really difficult for some people. And getting noticed is the first step to building strong long term relationships. So what happened? You made your plans, bought a new set of clothes, spent a good chunk of change on a haircut, went to the right places, were seen by the right people, and you’re sitting on your hands wondering why you went to so much trouble to be ignored all night.
It’s a tough world out there. How do you get noticed in a sea of faces, especially when a lot of those faces cost more to put on than your monthly salary? It just isn’t fair, is it?
So, why keep doing it? You know what the definition of insanity is, don‘t you? It’s repeating illogical behavior that has failed over and over again, like a mouse in a maze that never finds the cheese. Is that what you are? A crazy mouse?
Try a little dose of sanity next time. Try putting a little more effort into enjoying who you are, instead of worrying about doing the “right things” to get noticed. Does that sound crazy? Actually, no. It’s the essence of rationality. And actually, it works.
Think about it. Have you ever been at a gathering, full of the usual “look at me!” activity, and noticed that one person who seemed so…confident? Like they didn’t care whether anyone noticed them or not? Like they seemed to be enjoying just being there?
You have, haven’t you? Know why? Because that kind of attitude does stand out in a crowd. That aura of self-satisfaction amongst a crowd of unanchored ships lost at sea shines like a lighthouse beacon in a storm. And it doesn’t matter what they wore, or how much their haircut cost, or who they’re hanging out with, if anybody.
You see a real person underneath the façade. And you don’t forget that face. Try it some time. Visit here for more relationship advice.
